"The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You do not blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the president. You realize that you control your own destiny."  

I just wanted to shared Albert Ellies said. A Physicology who talks about take your personal life with responsability. 

to be more responsable about your personal life. Is more a concept which is referring to have an internal locus of control (whether of you feel that your actions can influence  your destiny) 

each one have a different perspective to think or see that. {

i think is true. As human we are, as different we are too. 

There is only one person you spend your whole life wth, and that is yourself. If you aren't okay with you, then there is an issue. 

this phrase explains everything. There is anything to comment

love yourself, can love others. people sometimes appreciate that. See more throught of this. 

hello everyone ! 
what's up? 

"The truth is that the more intimately you know someone, the more clearly you'll see their flaws. that's just the way it is. this is why marriages fail, why children are abandoned, why friendship don't last. You might think you love someone until you see the way they act when they're out of money or under pressure or hungry, for goodness's sake. love is something different. love is choosing to serve someone and be with someone in spite of their filthy heart. love is patient and kind, love is deliberate. love is hard. Love is pain and sacrifice, it's seeing the darkness in another person and defying the impulse to jump ship. "

for some much i experience i have had and not only the experience is also the knowdlege and sit and hear the people talk about it. 

How it says.. love is sacrife and pain yes true. sacrifice for someone you love say too much of you, say you really love that person. Also happen when you feel pain for that person, say that you really understand how he/she feels. There is a phrase my mom always well my family told me is sometimes you have to put his shoes to understand. this phrase apply for anything kind of relationship (friendship too) a true and real friend do that. 

Other is the love is patient and kind..totally true. love should be like that. if you are not knid or patient with that person probably that relationship fails. 

Like the respect and the honest... Love is about respect of that person and also is about to be honest with another. Respect related about the space and his things. Honest related about tell the things, the truth not the lies, how you think about..? that is to be honest. The person always should say.."i wanna be honest with me/ Don't lie me, tell me the truth of what happen, etc". 

Love is different yes it is. 

My perspective about the love and how it can be for a relationship works. 

I put that long phrase because i wanted you know first i wanted to say. 


See ya guys. 

A person who feels appreciated will always do more than what is expected it. As human we feels in that way sometimes. Always remember if you feel appreciated always you can do more than you expected it. 

people close of us appreciated for their personality and not for they see. it matters they are inside us not outside of us

It's certanly peaceful, isn't it?.  Don't you think well of that how you see. For that exists the perspective. The perspective to see many things include this beautiful and peaceful landscape. 

i hope you like it 

You can change a person who doesn't see an issue in their actions. Is kinda impossible but doesn't mean you don't treat how he treat you. Treat that person with kidness (harry styles said once).  This is my perspective, i see in that way. Don't let that person change you for anything. 

Maybe you can't change that person but doesn't mean you can be yourself, can be how you are. That happens don't scared. Just be you and show the life offers. Show your best way of see the things. 

Calm is really a superpower well depend of how perspective you have to see it. But we don't forget stay calm and relax and don't try to be stressfull all the time. Is not really good for a human. 

A human needs to be calm and enjoy more about the life's things ..